My best friend became an idiot ):-(
Posted 29 May 2012 - 07:05 AM
Well I have a story to tell you guys.
Almost eight months ago I made a friend at the work.He was the kind that nobody liked,but when I talk with him I realized that people should know him better before judging him.
He get out of the work but we still have contact.Suddenly he changed a lot!
He lied to me about being dating a girl that we both know,and when I asked her,she was horrified at the story(so they do not even speak more).
I bought chocolate at Easter to all my fellows,but he made me embarrassed to invent a story and not accept his Easter egg.
sometimes we are talking on the phone for messages and he turn off without even say bye first.Other times I'll call him and he says: "what you wanna bother me?"
Or he calls me many times when Im at work and I can't answer.
Last month he ask me money borrowed,he said he would pay me that day twenty ,but look at the day we are and so far none of my money back!
When I invite him to hang out, he says he has no money,if I invite him to come to a barbecue at my house,he says he has no time.BUT the last time we met,
he said he took two friends to his house,and then they were at a party he paid for his friends may enter.
I'm so angry that I think to forget the debt just to never talk to him.
but I remember the times he was not so:liar, rude, profiteering...
He said I was an awesome friend indeed,and helped him in anything.
But that's it.If you had a friend like mine,what would be your choice?
forget the friendship,or forgive and keep being the best friend that you can?
Posted 30 May 2012 - 11:19 AM
It's nice to see you here again.
Too bad it's a sad story like this, you are telling me.
Well, I have also already met such friends.
Forgive or not?
Forgiveness is one thing. It is certainly not easy. I think we can trust such a person seriously again. The friendship is broken. It is even very hurt.
I would try such a case again to talk to him. But if he will not change his attitude, then let him go.
You will usually disappointed again and again.
How do you get your money back, I do not unfortunately. I hope it was not too much.
I wish you luck, but that comes back all right.
All the best for you
Posted 30 May 2012 - 12:23 PM
Posted 30 May 2012 - 06:27 PM
Well,I tried talking to him one more time,and just had a bad result!
He said he had another friend to talk,and I made a joke saying he replaces his friends really fast.
Then he replied saying he did not replaced me as a friend because I never was his friend
This phrase I will not forget,it was devastating me in a single blow
And about the money,it was not much but he said he will come at my work to pay me back.
Posted 30 May 2012 - 11:22 PM
It's stupid, if you will only see the good in everyone. That I was also disappointed many times. However, sometimes you should not give up. Listen to your heart.
If you have any friends here who will always try to help you as much as possible.
Posted 01 June 2012 - 06:29 PM
"Even if you are on the right track, you will get run over if you just sit there." ~Will Rogers